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Are you hiding something?

May 27, 2010

I met a youth worker this week as part of my mapping exercise of the diocese of Sheffield who had been in post for six months and was obviously enjoying her job.  As I mentioned in my previous blog, there are many youth workers who drop out of ministry due to burnout, feelings of inadequacy etc.  But for this youth worker, she expressed to me a healthy rhythm of work supported by good people and an energetic zest for connecting with young people.

It seems that she has addressed the issues that might lead to her early departure – probably unknowingly!  She has recently completed some good quality training which has filled her with confidence in her ability to do the job, and showed an organised approach to tacking each day.

As I continue to map the diocese and meet people – these are the areas of concern I will focus on.

  • Feelings of inadequacy – my job to discern the reasons and address them
  • Strained family relationships – none of my business really, but encourage workers get a support network of friends around them
  • Growing loss of confidence – address these areas with resources, training or simply meeting with others
  • Feeling unqualified for the job – assessing the training they have had and offering suitable follow on courses
  • Disorganised in one’s work habits – again, this can be addressed with training or a time shadowing someone more organised in their work
  • Burnout – analyse the driving force, and address the need to impress or display high levels of activity.

Many of these areas can of course be hidden until they result in break-down.  It is a case of spotting the signs and offering sensitive solutions.

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youthworker dropout?

May 13, 2010

It is a depressing truth that many youth workers drop out of ministry after just a few years in post.  Sue Peat’s book on equipping graduates for youth ministry analyses some of the reasons why and suggests some ways of protecting this precious breed from burnout or the many other reasons for dropout.

Duffy Robbins at the National DYO conference this week outlined the many pitfalls that lead to youth workers leaving the profession – some for good.

  • Feelings of inadequacy
  • Strained family relationships
  • Growing loss of confidence
  • Feeling unqualified for the job
  • Disorganised in one’s work habits, and of course
  • Burnout!

Part of my own job is to demonstrate a good working practice so as to avoid these myself, but also to help others to steer clear of these traps.

One of the big challenges I faced at the National Conference was to make sure I spend at least as much time and creative energy on my family as I do with the people I work with.  I can plan for hours for a creactive youth programme, or a service idea, or even a training event – but then I can opt out at home.  Family – my most precious gift, let’s go do something fun together!

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“It’s hard to hug a moving target”

May 12, 2010

“It’s hard to hug a moving target”

Duffy Robbins (a professor of youth ministry at Eastern University in St. Davids, Pennsylvania) has been inspiring me over the last two days.  No, I’m not in the States – I’m at the annual national DYO (diocesan youth officer) conference in Lytham St Annes (just south of Blackpool) having just started my new job with Sheffield diocese.

Duffy, an internationally respected voice in the world of youth work was invited to share his thoughts on good practice and to challenge us to avoid the ‘pot-holes’ so commonly fallen into by Christian youth workers.

“As I was spinning my children around on a play-ground round-about” Duffy retells, “and my youngest daughter decided to try to show her love for me by holding out her arm to hug me.  Unfortunately, the speed I was spinning her led to her arm striking my neck as it spun round, causing me to hit the ground, splitting both of my lips!  It’s hard to hug a moving target!”

His point was that we can be too busy to be cared for.  As youth workers, we’ve got to slow down from time to time in order to look after our private world – our families, friends, our relationship with God – our peace, His peace.

He quotes Eugene H. Peterson’s ‘Working the Angles’ when he says we have to invest time in:

  • prayer – listening to God for our own life
  • scripture reading – listening to God in history
  • spiritual direction – listening to God in the life of another person

So – day seven of my new post has been great.  I’ve met some new DYO friends and understood a little more about how things work.

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thoughts on blog themes

April 30, 2010

Young Christians and media?

Using web 2.0 to communicate with young Christians.  Discipleship?

How young people use web 2.0 in their faith journey

Identities – what do you reveal about yourself online?

How CHRISTIAN is your facebook?

Is your faith part of your online identity?

Do 12-21 year olds show their faith online?

Is your online identity anything like you?

How many online and offline identities do you have?

Still thinking…

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Internet Cultures module, here we go…

April 30, 2010

Sitting in the London Knowledge Lab, ready for the first session on WordPress…